Question for any women who are or have ever been a stripper?

These men are pathetic. I understand a stag party on distant occasion, since it is fun and the beer and a bunch of friens and a wild time. I don't understand paying money to just watch or a man to get himself horny and tease himself. It's like going to a bakery and smelling and looking at the pastries, and spending money to just dothat, but not eating the pastries and cakes. Doesn't make sense to me.